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Being Resilient
“You cannot ‘bounce back’ from hardship. You can only move through it. There is a path through pain to wisdom, through suffering to strength and through fear to courage – if we have the virtue of resilience.” -Eric Greitens Her face was pinched in pain. Her first...
Messy in the Middle
“In every organizing process of decluttering and improving things, there is chaos. Things feel worse before they get better.” -Barbara Hemphill My client took a pause in our conversation. After letting out a long, slow breath, she spoke. “I guess it all just feels so...
The Integration of Doing & Being
Last week, my husband and I had dinner with friends. Halfway through the meal, the conversation steered towards the significance of being present. “I find, these days, my kids will come by, and after they leave, I feel I begin to miss them right away,” the husband...
Making Time
“Mom, can you explain to Dad what I’m talking about?” My daughter stood in my bedroom door looking pressed and frustrated. I looked up. “Well, what is it, exactly, that you are talking about?” I asked her. She gave me an exaggerated sigh. “Why I have to take time to...
Addressing the Clutter
“I’m good,” my client responded to the question, “how have you been feeling over the past week?” Having not received a clear response to the question, I probed. “Can you further define ‘good’ for me?” I asked. “Nothing is going wrong right now,” he started slowly....
Check Out My Feature in the October/November Issue of Formidable Woman!
Formidable Woman is an inspirational magazine for women everywhere who might sometimes question what they can achieve. It is a wonderful resource for learning about successful women – formidable women – and how they broke through ceilings, juggled career with family,...
The Grace of Allowance
I had a pivotal conversation with a client last week in which he shared his intentions for helping his kids process the thoughts and feelings they were having around their family’s shifting situation. “I want to create a safe place for them,” he said. “I want them to...
Choosing the Voice Within
“It seems like the world is getting less noisy,” my client replied when asked what she had been noticing since our last conversation. “Can you tell me more about this?” I asked. “Well, maybe it’s that I’m paying less attention to what the world has to say and caring...
More Connected, More Detached
My daughter recently celebrated her 12th birthday, and as we do every year, we hosted a sleepover weekend for 7 of her closest friends. This year’s theme was backyard camping. It was also, my husband and I decided, to be entirely tech-free. As I texted families on...