It’s Time to Look In and Get Real With Your TRUE Nature as a Leader

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There is no doubt that today’s business landscape is rapidly evolving. Leadership is no longer solely about managing teams or achieving results—it’s about leading from a place of authenticity and transparency. Leaders who excel in this new era understand that to inspire and create genuinely empowered cultures, they must first align with their true nature. This moment calls for leaders to confront old habits, behaviors and mindsets that no longer serve them or their organizations and to step forward with clarity, honesty and a real understanding of who they truly are and what makes them tick.

Just as market dynamics shift, so too must leaders adapt, evolving in a way that reflects not just external demands but internal alignment. Now more than ever, the call is clear: it’s time to look inward, shed the layers of outdated leadership approaches, and lead with legitimacy and intentionality.

Shedding Old Patterns as a Leader

Every leader carries a set of ingrained behaviors that shape their leadership style. Some of these are assets, while others may be limiting. Often, these old patterns arise from outdated mindsets such as a desire for control, a fear of vulnerability or decision-making driven by ego or insecurity.

These restrictive ways of being, if left unchecked, can hinder a leader’s ability to foster trust, build strong teams and create innovative companies. Not looking in with curiosity and honesty also leads to feelings of inauthenticity and a lack of fulfillment, even if traditional success is achieved. In today’s current environment, leaders must be willing to work on what they have, before now, not been willing to address and look at in order to evolve into more agile, adaptable and embodied leaders.

The key question to ask yourself is this: When it comes to my role as a leader, what long-held beliefs, behaviors or approaches are not working and are holding me back?

Whether it’s a general resistance to change, an aversion to giving/receiving feedback or an overemphasis on control and feeling you have to be “on top” of everything, now is the time to recognize and work on understanding and shifting these professional (and personal) practices. Leaders, who can illuminate their blind spots and shed narratives and actions that no longer serve them, position themselves—and their teams—for greater success and sense of purpose.

Transparency and Authenticity: Essential Qualities for Today’s Leader

In modern leadership, transparency is not a nice-to-have; it’s critical. Transparency begins with self-awareness and self-honesty—understanding not only your strengths but also where you need to grow. Leaders who are willing to be open with and accepting of themselves when it comes to their weaknesses and challenges are better positioned to lead teams with integrity, confidence and greater positive impact.

Authentic leaders are those who lead from a place of deep self-awareness and alignment with their core nature and values. When you lead from your true design, rather than relying on conditioned scripts or external guidance, you inspire and give others permission to do the same. Transparency fosters a sense of psychological safety within ourselves and with others. This, in turn, encourages openness, creativity and respect.

In essence, effective leadership today is not about projecting an image of being in control and having it all together; it’s about being real. Authentic leaders create environments where employees feel comfortable taking risks, sharing new ideas, expressing concerns and being themselves. This is accomplished when they know that honesty and openness are valued because these qualities are modeled through the leader’s own behavior, words and actions.

Discovering Your True Leadership Essence

For leaders, the process of discovering your true essence is akin to fine-tuning a complex machine. It requires deliberate reflection, self-examination, and the willingness to do the real work to bring about internal change. Are you leading from a place that aligns with who you were truly designed to be, or are you adhering to antiquated leadership norms and external pressures?

Leaders who understand their innate blueprint and lead from this place are better equipped to navigate uncertainty, build resilient teams and drive change initiatives. Their self-discovery is not about seeking perfection, but about owning who they are as a leader – discovering, understanding and embracing all parts of who they are.

When you align your leadership style with your authentic self, you naturally inspire confidence, loyalty and commitment from those you lead. Additionally, this makes you a more adaptable leader, better able to respond to the needs of your team and the demands of a constantly changing professional landscape.

Practical Steps to Getting Real As a Leader

To effectively navigate this journey of self-discovery and transparency, leaders can take the following actionable steps:

  1. Self-Reflection: Regularly set aside time for introspection. Evaluate your leadership style and identify any behaviors or habits that may be holding you back. Are you clinging to control, resisting feedback, or avoiding vulnerability?
  1. Embrace Feedback: Seek out candid feedback from your team, peers, and mentors. By understanding how others perceive your leadership, you can uncover areas for improvement. Remember, feedback is a tool for growth, not a reason to develop defensiveness. If we are focused on protecting ourselves, we are not open to broadening and enhancing who we are and how we impact others.
  1. Practice Vulnerability: Vulnerability is powerful. Share your challenges, admit mistakes and don’t be afraid to show your human side. When leaders model vulnerability, it encourages their people to do the same, fostering a culture open to diversity and originality.
  1. Let Go of Control: Leaders often feel the need to control every outcome, but letting go of control can be liberating. Trust your team to handle challenges and empower them to take ownership of their work. In doing so, you’ll create a more dynamic and agile team environment.
  1. Align With What You Value: Reconnect with your core values and truths as a leader. Are your actions, decisions and leadership style aligned with who you are and what you stand for, or are they driven by external demands and expectations? Use who you are as a guiding compass in navigating your leadership journey.
  1. Invest in a Professional Accountability Partner: Whether it’s a professional peer, mentor or coach, having someone who can hold you accountable to your own inner work – and help you identify unseen blind spots – will allow you to continue to peel the onion of your inner world to discover how it affects your leadership. As a professional coach myself, I believe the investment in someone who can support and challenge you to continue your journey to be real is a must – just as it is for professional athletes who don’t want to become obsolete.

Leading with Confidence and Openness

The modern business world demands leaders who are adaptable and on the up and up. In shedding old leadership patterns and embracing transparency, you are not only evolving as a leader but also empowering your teams and organizations to thrive.

Leadership today is about more than just strategy and execution—it’s about building relationships rooted in trust, honesty and showing up as who you truly are. Leaders who lead from their true nature and who are unafraid to be real and open inspire loyalty, drive innovation, and create environments where people can bring their best selves to work.

Now is the time to take a bold step toward further discovering, defining and aligning your true nature to how you live and lead. By shedding what no longer serves you and aligning your leadership style with your true desires and design, you will unlock new levels of clarity, self-empowerment, influence and success. Leadership is not about being a particular version of what others believe a leader needs to be —it’s about really being who you actually are. The time to look inward and get real with that genuine version of you is NOW.